Ubah
Abdilahi Hirsi was a Tostan participant in Somaliland. Her community of Daami
completed Tostan’s holistic human rights-based education program, the Community
Empowerment Program (CEP), in 2010. In this interview with the former National
Coordinator of Tostan Somalia, Oumar Name, Ubah describes the positive changes
she has seen in her family and community since her participation. Mouhamed Abdi, former Assistant to the National
Coordinator at Tostan Somalia, translated this interview.
My name is Ubah Abdilahi Hirsi. I am 48-years-old
and I live in Daami, a village in Somaliland. I participated in Tostan’s Community Empowerment Program (CEP) from 2007 to 2010. I am the oldest of eight children and when I
was young, my father, a traditional carpenter of the village, could not afford
to send me to school. Despite having no formal education, I worked very hard to
open my own restaurant selling cups of tea and sandwiches. Every morning, I
have to walk five kilometers to be at my restaurant before opening at 5:00 am -
doing all the work in order to provide for my husband and seven children.
I first learned of Tostan’s CEP when other
women and girls were talking about the program in my village. At first, I did not think I would have time
for the classes as my restaurant was the only source of income for my family.
But even under difficult circumstances, I had such a strong desire to attend
that I set aside two hours in the afternoon for Tostan classes. Before Tostan, I did not know my human rights,
but now, thanks to the classes, I have rediscovered how to smile and find
happiness in my job and home.
Like many places in Somaliland, there was a
belief in Daami that women did not need to go to school. Tostan’s CEP showed me
and other women that education is just as much our right as it is a man’s
right. I soon realized that when women
and girls received education, social change began to unfold in my community.
The first change happened within my own household when I began discussing what
I learned in the Tostan classes with my uncle - he listened and respected my
advice. Family management became a joint
effort for us, which in turn created a more positive family environment.
Within the community as a whole, women and
girls united together to bring positive social reforms. Tostan helped us change ourselves and helped
us push others towards positive change. Now, I have a better understanding of
birth spacing and good nutrition for children, which has helped to decrease the
number of malnourished children in my village. The community also experienced profound
changes in regards to female genital cutting (FGC). I now understand the damaging health consequences of
FGC on young girls, which is why I chose not to have it practiced on my
daughter who was born one year after I began Tostan classes.
I also have a better understanding of my personal health and the importance of
a clean home. I organized women and girls in the village into a group called Nanafada, which in Somali means to be
clean and to clean your environment. Every weekend, I am joined by the women of
Daami to sweep the village and share our knowledge of health and hygiene with
other women who cannot attend Tostan classes. In cleaning the village, we have
created a safer environment with cleaner food and homes and with less waste
around the village.
Before Tostan’s classes, I worried that I would
only be a restaurant worker. Now, I happily promote the cleanliness and well-being
of the community members in Daami. I believe the most effective way to create
lasting change is by engaging other women and girls in my community; the CEP
gave me the tools to do that.
There is a Somali proverb: “if you educate
a man, you only educate one person. But if you educate women, you educate an
entire society.” I know now that women
are an important element of development, and I would like to ask Tostan to make
more classes available so that all communities can benefit from this program.